Naturally, all men are incapacitated. The greatest or wisest of men could be slain by a very small, but insurmountable habit. (Jer.13:23)
We must realize that we can do nothing of ourselves (Jn.15:5; 2Cor.3:5). If we must be changed or passed over to the other side, it must by the Lord (1Cor.4:7; 2Cor.3:5).
On realizing that we cannot change ourselves, we then turn to the Lord in prayers and weeping.